Boundaries
Here are my boundaries. Please keep in mind that they could change at any given time! I do not have the obligation to inform you when my boundaries have had a change.
- Respect my privacy- I value my own personal space. Please do not pry into my personal life or ask me any extreme private questions.
- Communication- I appreciate honest and open communication with me, if there is an issue you have with me, please talk to me instead of slandering me behind my back, and also please avoid aggressiv or confrontional tones with me.
- Patience- Please understand that I have my own private life, I respond to messages, when I like. Do not force me to reply and simply stay patient, I will sooner or later get back to you.
Things im uncomfortable with
- I do not want to be called by any masculine pronouns or terms, these include bro, unc or anything remotely close.
- I do not like to be called wife, even if its platonic. It feels insanely and incredible weird to me.
- Being made fun of for my english, much of my english is self taught over the last few years, im really proud of myself for doing such and if i get made fun of for my english it makes me feel really down.
- Calling me by any other name that I might have gone by, my current name is Dylin and i'd like to be called by my preferred name.
Things to keep in mind
- Just because we interact or I have you added as a friend does not immediately make us friends.
- I take the right to block people at any time, I do not own people an explanation when I block someone.
- I have my own private struggles and issues, I highly prefer you do not vent to me, without me explicit giving the permission to do so.
- Do not call me "dyl" or "lin" just because they are my display name- only call me by them when I directly grant you the permission to- it makes me insanely uncomfortable to use nicknames on me without being close to me.